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The thought of readying it for someone else to live in strikes panic in my very being. </p> <p> Making room for him/her/them would be almost as bad as moving. Would someone else treasure my tiny, one-person space, its proximity to good transportation, and its location within walking distance of the best gourmet food shop in my big city? </p> <p> Anyway, most of the exchange ads I read want a house, and many want enough space for a family. So, although I know several people who regularly do house exchanges, I have never got around to going in that direction myself. </p> <p> Recently, I decided that perhaps house- sitting might make more sense for me. In the past two years, I have checked out several possibilities and have had two house-sitting gigs, one in England and one in British Columbia. Both were arranged with friends, a distinct advantage. </p> <h3>House-sitting for Friends </h3> <p> My gig in England was in a tiny village in Buckinghamshire, a short distance northwest of London. Even the address was romantic &#8211; Rectory Cottage, Church Lane, St Stephen's on the Marsh. The cottage was a delight, two hundred years old with whitewashed walls, once occupied by, as its name implies, the rector. The village was picture postcard perfect &#8211; pubs, a tearoom, a church, and a pond with swans. I spent my week there reading, exploring the village, walking along the footpath by the river to the next village, and sightseeing in the area, courtesy of my hostess's friends. </p> <p> The British Columbia gig was in a small town on Vancouver Island, had two cats in the package, and was for a month. I went with the idea of having a complete change from big city to small town living and, thanks to my hostess, was able to do so. </p> <p> Unfortunately, the cats didn't like me, but we worked out a compromise &#8211; I fed them and issued the invitation to join me in front of the fire in the evenings; they declined, so we each did our own thing. </p> <h3> Get an Insider's View </h3> <p> I learned the charms of a small town, how to navigate a bus system where the buses run only once an hour. I spent hours curled up on the sofa reading. My hostess had introduced me to a friend of hers, and we did some things together. I used the local public library, took aquafit classes at the pool, and joined with a weekly walking group. </p> <p> When I tired of tailoring my comings and goings to the once-an-hour bus, I rented a car and set off to explore the area. I had a brunch for some friends who had moved from the East. A friend, another <em><big>C</big>onnecting </em>member, came over from Vancouver to spend a few days with me. </p> <h3> Success Stories </h3> <p> These are the success stories. In thinking back over the successful house-sitting gigs, I realize that there are several things which led to their success: </p> <ul> <li>Both houses belonged to friends. </li> <li>I was able to be in the house for briefings before the owner left. </li> <li> The owner thoughtfully introduced me to a friend or neighbor. </li> <li> The owner left a folder of maps, attractions in the area, restaurant suggestions, etc. </li> <li> I went with the idea of seeing a new place and spending my time in that place, not just using it as a base for touring. </li> <li> Before the owner left, I made a verbal arrangement re telephone bill, household supplies, etc. </li> <li> I left a thank you gift to show my appreciation. </li> </ul> <h3> Un-Success Stories </h3> <p> The unsuccessful ones are places where I answered an ad, then went to visit the locale and discovered that it was not at all suitable for me. While traveling in England I went to see two possible house-sitting places. The main problem with both was the lack of convenient public transportation. A car would have been necessary, and I have no desire to drive in England. </p> <h3> Questions to Ask </h3> <p> What did I learn from the gigs I didn't take? I now know what is necessary for me to have a satisfying experience, and I now know what questions to ask. </p> <ul> <li>Is a car necessary? </li> <li> Is there a good public transportation system? How long does it take to walk to the bus stop or train station? How often do the buses or trains run? </li> <li> If the house is not right in a town or city, how long does it take to walk into the town or city? </li> <li> Is there a grocery store within walking distance? </li> <li> Is there a library? A pool? </li> <li> Are there community activities that I could participate in? </li> <li> Are there good walking areas nearby? </li> <li> May I entertain and/or have a house guest? </li> <li> What chores need doing? Pets, garden, indoor plants? </li> </ul> <h3> Communication </h3> <p> I would also exchange emails and telephone calls with prospective house owners, and arrange to go to the locale in advance of the owner's departure. </p> <p> Do you need a trustworthy house-sitter? If so, look for me in the Ads &amp; Ends section (under Lodging Exchange). Let's start a house-sitting trend between <em><big>C</big>onnecting</em> members. </p> <h3><em>MK</em> </h3> <p> <strong>Diane</strong>: Readers, this is just one more way you can help one another to get out and go traveling. 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